Wow! That was an incredible stomp on Gent.Jim…… I loved it! Soooo many men unfortunately think like him… I’ve met several…. Im 37 and take pretty good care of my self ,have an outstanding sex drive and dont see anything wrong with having sex with some one you feel comfortable with.(NO I haven’t had sex with tons of guys….just 5 in my whole life) I also hate this double standard where it is okay for a guy to go out and have sex with as many women as he wants and that’s acceptable but when a woman does it not even to the same degree, she’s a whore,tramp, or a slut……I also don’t believe that just because a woman was promiscuous when she was younger means that she isn’t good relationship material when shes older….. Just because a woman made certain decisions in her younger life doesnt mean she is incapable of changing her ways and maturing and realizing what’s good for her and what’s not…. Its no different than a guy doing silly stuff that gets him into trouble when he’s a kid and then growing up to be a respectable gentleman…… Or is it being suggested that only men have this ability/right? I have always been in longterm relationships since high school infact got married right after graduation and stuck with it for 13 yrs and have NEVER once cheated on any one. (I have been cheated on uncountable times)But If I like a guy and am attracted to him and sexual feelings are mutual I dont care if it is 5 min 5 hours 5 days or 5 months after meeting him….. Im going to do it if it makes him and I happy….That doesn’t make me a bad person or bad relationship material….Like I’ve said… Ive never cheated, I try to choose my partners wisely ,I use common sense and I use protection….. Which by the way in my experience is twice as cautious as any man I’ve ever dated. Most men Ive dated always want to have sex on the first date and NEVER seem to carry protection, expect the females to carry and most of the time dont even care if you use it any way! Actually in most cases they would rather not! Ive dated (not slept with)LOTS of guys and have found what you say in your article to be extremely true….which is precisely why I don’t sleep with very many of them. And boy…..Lol….If we ladies were to judge a man on his past behavior I hate to say it guys ,but 95% of you would NEVER get laid!!! Men do a lot of mean nasty degrading dispicable hurtful unnecessary cruel heartless disgusting things when they are younger and some continue on into their adult lives. The thing is… Women tend to look past these things with open minds understanding that a persons past does not always mean to expect that behavior in the future as we understand that human beings grow up mature and change their behaviors…. Its the twenty first century and men need to crawl out of their caves……Its a woman’s world as much as it is a mans and the rules of nature apply to all of us in the same manner…none of us are exempt…..If a man plans to judge a woman by her past than he’ll need to expect the same from her….Good luck with that guys! There is no such thing as “too soon” for sex. In my opinion…its about chemistry ,attraction ,desire and closeness. The right moment isn’t a time its a feeling. A moment where you make a mutual decision to be close with some one…. I believe there isn’t a bad time for sex…but a bad reason….. Its the intensions of the sexual behavior that I feel are important….. Not when it happens… And honestly if we were to base sex off of intensions….Where would that leave men???? Just a thought…
Has your man ever been described as a player? While you may think that your relationship with one another is progressing at a good a pace, a man may pull away when he senses that things between the two of you are getting too serious. If he's interested in more of a fling than a committed, long-term relationship, he may put up a wall in order to stall or stop whatever's progressing between the two of you. At the same time, if he's feeling a lot of pressure from you to commit or your relationship is moving at a rapid pace, he may also choose to act in a distant manner in order to slow things down and take the time he needs to figure out what he really wants going forward.
My boyfriend and I had been living together for almost six months although we’ve been dating for close to 3 years. At first it was the perfect moments of our lives but along the way we started having pointless arguments and naughty attitudes toward each other. I couldn’t stand him and he always said it was because he loved me more. So he got another apartment and stopped staying with me. Now I miss him more than I ever have. We stopped fighting and eventually he invited me over for the weekend because he was dying to see me. After leaving, I missed him more and couldn’t do anything without him. He cried that he misses me more but I don’t think he does else he would have moved back in. Please any help making him miss me more than I miss him?
Im currently dating a black guy for 4months! I love him dearly. In the beginning we couldn’t get enough of each other! but lately when I phone he don’t pick up the phone and phones later on. I remember he didn’t have a car so that was his excuse when he didn’t show, but now he has a car, now his excuse is that his business is booming! and cant drop the clients. Weekends I don’t see him then its his buzzy time – and if I see him its only for 20minutes . We don’t have time together. I know in his culture the men don’t see the women but why does our relationship only come from one side and its me that doing all the effort! I really don’t know where we stand!
You’re in a relationship and everything seems to be going swell. You hang out all the time, he sends you goodnight texts every night, and he even surprises you with cute little gifts at your office. But lately it seems like the relationship is lacking. He’s not doing those cute things he used to do and it almost seems like he doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. What gives? Here’s 10 common reasons why men pull away from women.